You have become single recently. Immediately, after any breakup, there is a period of prolonged sadness and misery that can last between 24 hours, a lifetime. The symptoms of this period include, among others, personal doubts, self-pity and an emotional force that resembles that of a wet towel thrown on the cold and hard ground.
Depending on how the break occurred, that is, who caused it, who was lazy, if someone cheated, if he was bored, etc., a different degree of work will be required to overcome that annoyance.
Let’s look at the type and the reason for the breakups and the best way to deal with them:
Cheaters Never Win and Winners do not Cheat :
Let’s say you cheated on her or she cheated on you. Pain, guilt and sadness encompass everything.
This form of anguish is particularly difficult to overcome and can, as we said earlier, even last a lifetime. I know of men today who still miss their high school girlfriends until they are 30 years old. When you cheat, the game is always skewed and no amount of repentance or punishment will do well.
Confidence is like a vase, once it breaks, you can put all the pieces back but you can not get rid of the cracks. Such fragmented relationships need to be forgotten and buried. Remember that the next time you want to cheat.
You Broke Up with Her
This is the easiest to deal with. Ideally, you would have broken up with her because she had some annoying qualities. When you find yourself remembering the good times, just remember why you made that decision in the first place and everything should work normally.
Go out with friends, dinners and others. Life feels like a blessing. It requires a minimum time of gymnastics, but follow regularly to maintain muscle mass. Also, the gym is a great place to keep your confidence high and you always have the opportunity to meet someone new with like-minded interests.
It was Mutual
Sometimes, when the two are not interested in that, they decide to quit smoking even if things are not so bad. As if everything were vanilla ice cream. If that is the case, and the separation was in fact mutual, the chances are that you and your ex will end up on good terms. In such cases, you may want some vanilla ice cream from time to time, if you know what I mean. In these cases, it is better to think about the long-term implications.
With an ex like this, the question that must be asked is how much things will change in six months. Such patterns prevent you from finding someone more suitable for you. Mutual ruptures often mean that things were “right”. It’s fine it’s good It’s basic It’s good it’s mediocre. This is not something that someone should want from a relationship.
Therefore, if you feel that your relationship is simply a ‘good’, it may mean that you and your partner are better friends. Try to avoid the groups of common friends and exits, but apart from that, the world is your oyster. Make sure you go to the gym a couple of times a week, hard workouts are recommended.